Wise wives: 25 tips on how to treat your man right *wink*

How to respect and support you husband

1. Respectfully communicate with him.
2. When you are angry, direct the anger at the action or circumstance, not at him by yelling or giving the silent treatment.
3. Don't make major changes without discussion.
4. Don’t allow people to disrespect him, be the one to defend him to anyone that dishonors his place as your husband.
5. Defend him to anyone who disrespectfully talks about him.
6. Give advice in a loving way, not in a nagging or belittling way.
7. Help your husband to be the head of the home, honor his decisions; it’s freeing.
- Let him carry the responsibility of your family.
8. Don’t criticize him in front of others; honor him by keeping his dignity in tact.
9. Don’t remind him of his weaknesses at every opportunity.
10. Don’t disagree with him in front of others, especially the children if any.
11. Do not give him commands or instructions like he’s your servant.
12. Check with him before you throw away any of his things, he may view them as more important than you realize.
13. Don’t over commit yourself; leave time for him.
- Make him your first priority, put him on a pedestal, always.
14. Make sure he agrees with everything important that you’re planning to do.
15. Help him to finish his goals, hobbies, or education when you see he needs it.
16. Don’t belittle his intelligence or be cynical in your words with him.
17. Honor him in front of your children if any.
18. Always support his desires.
19. Respect him like a VIP; don't think that he has to earn it before you can do it
-Treat him like a king, and he will begin to treat you like a queen.
20. Don't yell, nag, or belittle; it is disrespectful and ineffective.
- Treat him like the man you want him to be and he will turn into that person.
21. When you disagree, instead wearing him down ask: “Is that your final decision or can I still try to convince you?”
22. Beware of your body language, you can show disrespect by rolling your eyes, crossing your arms, or slamming doors.
23. Never discuss things about your marriage with others; this is a recipe for disaster.
24. Try not to argue over money; peacefully discuss future spending instead.
25. Treat him with the same hospitality that you would a guest in your home.